Find Calm & Clarity in Life
Personalized, integrative counselling that meets you where you are
Find Calm & Clarity in Life
Personalized, integrative counselling that meets you where you are
What Is Integrate Therapy?
Empathy as the Foundation
Empathy as the Foundation
Empathy as the Foundation
Empathy is all about being seen and heard, knowing that our feelings are valld, and that what we're going through is a normal human experience. As a deep, patient, attentive listener, I'm here to witness your stories, reflect them back to you in powerful new ways, and support you in seeing the pathways you haven't considered before.
The Nervous System
Empathy as the Foundation
Empathy as the Foundation
Many illnesses arise from stress, and so do many life challenges and internal blockages. Stress itself can be seen as the language of the nervous system, so if you learn how stress works, and learn how your nervous system works, then you'll have powerful new tools for navigating any obstacle life throws at you.
Somatic Lens
Empathy as the Foundation
Somatic Lens
One way of working together is talking, and it can be powerful. Another way is through embodiment: sensing, tracking, and getting curious about what you feel, learning what comfort and discomfort feel like, and releasing stored trauma. Therapy can be a lot more effective when talk is combined with somatic work, so I use them both.
What I Can Help With
It's all connected!
Just like the trees and mycelium in a forest, the issues below are all connected. No single challenge can be completely separated from the rest. However, we can use the following list as a starting point, a place to figure out a focus. And, we can always shift gears as we go along.
Stress
To me, stress is this sort of silent plague that affects us on every level, but we don't often realize it. I can help walk you through the steps to recognize your stress, understand it, and gradually get a better handle on it.
Depression
I suffered long bouts of depression, and nothing seemed to work. It took the combination of a number of different approaches to get to a point where I stay level for long periods of time, and the drops aren't as long. I've gathered a wide range of tools and approaches I'd love to share with you.
Anxiety
I didn't realize I was dealing with anxiety until I finally had a panic attack. Like stress, it's another silent challenge that can work in the background until it finally crashes our system. I'm here to help guide you through and out of your anxiety, into a life that doesn't feel so on edge.
Creativity
As a dancer, musician, dance and music teacher, performer, and all-around creative artist for years and years, I know what it's like to face creative blocks, want to try something new but feel too scared, or suffer from long plateaus. Let's find the spark you need to express yourself!
Relationships
I feel like I've been practicing relationships every since I first started dating in high school. I have experience in both monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships, both long and short term, casual dating and marriage, long distance and living together. I'm hear to share the tools I've learned and support you as you navigate your own challenging relationship(s).
Codependency
As an Adult Child of an Alcoholic (ACOA), codependency is almost like a way of life. It operates in the background, muddying relationships and boundaries, and is often misunderstood. After working through my own codependent challenges, I'm here to help you walk through yours.
Men's Issues
As a boy who never fit in with other boys, and a man who doesn't fit the typical male stereotype, I've worked hard to escape the societal concept of what a man is supposed to be, and I've arrived at my own happy, healthy version of life as a man. After working with teen boys for years, and leading a men's group for the past three years, I'd love to walk alongside you on your own journey. Let's figure out how you can be the person you want to be in a culture that leads so many men astray.
Theories and Methods
As we address any or all of the above, some of the methods and modalities we might draw from include: Attachment Theory, Polyvagal Theory, nervous system science (regulation/dysregulation), somatics-influenced tools, Narrative Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, and NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM). I have also supported clients through addiction and recovery, boundaries and consent, apology and making amends, overwhelm, shyness, and more.